I'll just start with the update on the host mess to get it out of the way. It was either Monday or Tuesday when we heard Dany on the phone with ISA. She told them that she was doing everything she could and we were just rude and ungrateful. Considering we say thank you after every meal (gross or not) every time she does laundry, or even just simply tells us something, I think we're pretty grateful. But I don't think the lies she tells even resonate in the ears of ISA...they seem to know us better than that. On Tuesday Gabriel called us and told us he had an apartment for us to move into. GREAT! FABULOUS! But the one thing I've learned here is to not get excited till you get all the facts. So the next morning we went in and met with them to find out that ISA Austin wanted Sasha and I to both pay $750 for the deposit...for living there 1 month. I've been in Europe for 3 months, I really don't have an extra wad of cash laying around to throw at them for a refundable deposit. And furthermore, why should we be paying double deposit on an apartment meant for 1 person? Nope, nope, nope. Annamaria explained to us that she had tried everything she could but ISA Austin wasn't budging. She even offered to take personal responsibility for the apartment if anything happened. Well last chance was she would ask if we could at least pay $750 BETWEEN the two of us. So we left in hopes that Austin would get their heads out of their asses. That night (afternoon in the states) Sasha and I received an email from the vice president of ISA in Austin stating that we would have to pay the $750 EACH if we moved. He went on to quote things from the contract and say how we had been given the chance to move in February but hadn't taken it so based on all this we would have to pay. Well funny thing is, we were never told we could move in February. Because believe me if we had been told, I more than likely wouldn't be in this situation. So I emailed him back. I was friendly but still had a f*** ISA attitude about it. I closed the email saying "Conclusively, I have decided that I will not be moving into the apartment. I do appreciate the efforts made to allow the option to even come available, but the chance of the losing more money to ISA makes it so it isn't worth it. Coming to Paris for these four months has been one of the best decisions I have ever made. I've grown as a student but more importantly as an individual. My only regret is going through an organization that seems so focused on the money that they have lost site of the great things a study abroad program could do for its students. I really do hope that this does not fall on deaf ears; too often the voices of young people are ignored." I honestly didn't really expect anything back. Well on Friday Sasha and I got an email back saying how much he appreciated both of our emails and offering for us to fill out 2 credit card forms for the deposit...1 for $200 that he would exempt from the 3% normal fee for using a credit card and would also cash right away...and 1 for $550 that would be held onto in case of damages. I felt like his reply was nice but at the same time I felt like it was a kind of "oh crap I can't just push these girls around I better do something" kind of reply. Either way I've still decided not to move. I'm nervous giving ISA anymore money & by the time we got moved in and settled it would be time to pack up to go to Denmark. So all in all I will probably have my complaints about Dany (like when I talk about dinners this week) but I'm going to do my best to ignore how she treats us and enjoy the last weeks I have here.
As far as my week: Monday I stayed in and did some work. Nothing too exciting, Mondays never really are. Tuesday I had French and my English course. In English we discovered our final isn't this week but the week after...so it's my only class not canceled this week. That night Maggie and I ate with Dany...we sat down to a whole plate of cold salmon each. Gross..packaged...just gross salmon. I couldn't finish it. But after we went to the big movie theater only a few stops away and saw Remember Me. It was really good. It's amazing how many movies are starting to reference 9-11 though. I cannot believe it's already been going on 9 years. No French person in that theater could have walked out feeling how Maggie and I did. I definitely suggest people see the movie...sad...but good. On Wednesday I met with ISA. Then I talked to Mom for a while and found out Rahjah was sick. She seems to be better now...but being 3500 miles away this didn't add to my day at all. That night however was when my week started to change. Anna and I grabbed dinner near my apartment, I got the best vegetarian salad and cappuccino. Eating out of the house is relaxing. Then, for French class, we went to a hip-hop dance show. It was really good! They set hip-hop to like classical, opera, African, and every other kind of music. At one point they had plastic cups set up in lines across the stage and they were dancing in between them. It was all male dancers and they were all amazing. Nothing like a good dance show to brighten up my week. The choreographer has another show on the 11th that I might see if Ellie wants to go to.
The only rough part was that none of us got home till at least 11 and had French again in the morning at 8:30. After class though I hung out till Maggie was done. We thought we were going to finally get to do the hot air balloon, but Paris decided to get windy. Instead we met up with Keshia and went to Montparnasse, the tallest building in Paris. The view was amazing. It was strange getting up above all the city noise. It seemed so distant from all the craziness down below. We spent some time taking pictures before heading down for a nice cafe. Per usual the waitress was less than friendly so we had a nice talk about America v. France culture-wise. There will be some things I will not miss. The anti-American feeling does get old. But then in other cases some French are excited to see and talk to us...I don't get it. After we headed home to find that Dany was again not eating with us. We were going to go out but instead split my bottle of champagne from Loire Valley over dinner and just hung out for the rest of the night watching entertaining videos online. Shockingly, before bed, I got my entire chapter done for class the next night. Better late then never I suppose. Friday Maggie and I grabbed lunch at the same place I ate Wednesday and then I headed to class. After we ate dinner the two of us, Dany was "too tired" or something. She had combined leftover salads from the whole week, thrown green beans and corn on top, and called it something new. Less than appetizing. Crunchy pasta to match. Dinner is always either really good, or really not. That night we watched Pirates and just hung out before going to bed.
Saturday I, for the most part, finished the slideshow for the Alpha Phi senior farewell. I have some newer pictures to add but it's almost done. I'm glad to not be rushing to the last minute for once. Other than that I just walked around some and relaxed. This week was for some reason exhausting and I just wanted some alone time. That night Dany didn't eat with me, AGAIN. So I ate alone. She made an entire table worth of food for just me. Included was the gross salad so I put it right back in the fridge before even sitting down, crunchy pasta from the night before mixed with canned mushrooms, cucumber/avocado salad (the cucumbers were good but the avocados had weird black spots on them), 4 slices of toast (no baguette all week), a place of cold fish and something else. I'm glad I wasn't very hungry, though I'm sure she wasn't happy with how little I ate. Maggie came home around 9:30 or so and by then it was too late to just go to a movie or anything so we once again stayed in. Hopefully we'll go out more this week.
Sunday. Sunday was my favorite day this week. That morning Maggie, Keshia, and I went to brunch at Breakfast in America. Maggie and I got their brunch special for 16 euros. It came with a choice of egg (I got a mexican omelet), tomatoes or hash browns (hash browns of course), toast, choice of pancakes or yogurt and a pastry (PANCAKES!), and endless coffee or espresso with orange juice (endless coffee and juice). It was amazing. The best part was they didn't bring it all at once, so besides the omelet, we finished everything. We waited in line for 45 minutes to get in, but it was worth it. From there we went to see the memorial for Princess Diana. I had completely forgotten she died here. Her memorial is shaped like a flame and place on the bridge over the underpass directly above where the accident happened. People wrote rest in peace notes all over the bridge. It was actually kind of nice. But at the same time strange to remember the news shows videos and photographs showing that exact place. We took some pictures there and of the Eiffel Tower before heading to Bois de Vincennes, the park. We met up with Sasha there and it was ABSOLUTELY beautiful outside. First we went to where the park name along with "Paris" is in huge letters. A photo shoot there was of course necessary. After we went and laid in the middle of the Chateau Vincennes on the grass to soak up some much needed sun. Yup, no worries, just chillin' in the middle of a castle. It was such an amazing day that we all just wanted to pass out in the sun. From there we headed to Place Monge, a place Sasha and I haven't been to since February even though it's so close to us. It was ironic because yesterday was the 3 month mark that I had been here and known Sasha and we were walking down the street we did my first night here. We grabbed ice cream that was shaped into roses on our cones and walked home. On the way however, all of our jaws dropped as we saw THE most attractive men that I've seen since I've been here. They were walking in front of us talking about us as we talked about them. Unfortunately our paths split but we all made eye contact for as long as possible till the other group was out of sight. Not a bad way to end the day at all! We came home to find Dany cooking...but she didn't eat with us again and there was no baguette again. Dinner wasn't bad but she stil hadn't thrown away that salad, hopefully she did today. Things have just slipped with her...she was so great at the beginning and it just got steadily worse.
Either way, yesterday was amazing. I couldn't have asked for a better day. I really am happy for the first time in a long time. And I think it's been the first time I've been happy that a guy hasn't been directly involved in it. I really haven't felt like "myself" since around May of 2008. From there, it's been a slow process of piecing everything back together. Getting away and coming here has been the best thing for me and although it hasn't been all amazing times, this has been one of the best experiences of my life. I am truly happy. At the same time, however, it scares me to go home. It scares me to go back to where the unhappiness I felt before originated. I feel like I've grown as a person though and that no matter what lies ahead, I'll be able to handle it a lot better than I could before. I miss home, but it will be strange to leave this life behind me.
Only 26 days left in Paris and oh so much to do. Today I'm finally going to the Pantheon and maybe something else, who knows. I have the whole week with no classes, so hopefully I'll get to see and do a lot that I've been meaning to.
Au Revoir <3